Confidence comes natural with success but success only comes to those who are confident. You will never build a reputation, relationship or business based on what you intend to do. Your intentions may be honorable and sincere but unless you put them into action, nothing will change. Self-value, self-worth and self-esteem must come from knowing who you are within and feeling good about it. Does your world and environment promote your growth and identity? Listen, I know things are rough for you right now and yes life can teach you some painful lessons, but sometimes life gives you the test before you have had a chance to study the lesson.

No matter what you do, you must never lose sight of the fact that the lessons are your lessons. It does not matter what anyone thinks or believes; you are the one growing and learning. You must embrace the lessons, otherwise you will not build the necessary strength and endurance from the experiences. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, give thanks in all circumstances for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. You can turn your problems into joys when you view them as opportunities to change your circumstances. Being grateful is the first step to opening your mind and heart to hope. Always remember an attitude of gratitude increases your altitude. You are tougher than you know, you are a survivor and that is reason enough to celebrate and keep going! ~KM~